{"id":25139,"date":"2014-03-10T21:57:23","date_gmt":"2014-03-11T03:57:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/?p=25139"},"modified":"2014-03-11T08:03:52","modified_gmt":"2014-03-11T14:03:52","slug":"24-years-and-still-in-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/?p=25139","title":{"rendered":"24 Years and Still in Love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Imbolc \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0Hare Moon<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, not often, but sometimes an event matches its purpose. \u00a0Tonight&#8217;s anniversary dinner was such an event. \u00a0We arrived at the Nicollet Island Inn at 6 pm, the same place <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/exterior-night.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-25140 alignright\" alt=\"exterior-night\" src=\"http:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/exterior-night.jpg\" width=\"483\" height=\"203\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/exterior-night.jpg 690w, https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/exterior-night-300x126.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 483px) 100vw, 483px\" \/><\/a>where, 24 years ago, we spent the night before boarding a PanAm (yes, PanAm, can you imagine?) flight for Rome.<\/p>\n<p>The host knew it was our anniversary, took us to our table after complimenting us on our glasses and our colorful garments and pointed to the bouquet on the table. \u00a0&#8220;You are loved,&#8221; he said to Kate. &#8220;24 years and still in love?&#8221; \u00a0Yes, we nodded. \u00a0&#8220;Wonderful. \u00a0Have a great evening.&#8221; \u00a0We did.<\/p>\n<p>We thanked our taste in classical music, our seats at the St. Paul Chamber Orchestra for <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/72KateandmePizarro2011-11-01_3529.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-25141 alignleft\" alt=\"72KateandmePizarro2011 11 01_3529\" src=\"http:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/72KateandmePizarro2011-11-01_3529-258x300.jpg\" width=\"258\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/72KateandmePizarro2011-11-01_3529-258x300.jpg 258w, https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/72KateandmePizarro2011-11-01_3529.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 258px) 100vw, 258px\" \/><\/a>bringing us together. \u00a0We looked at the things that could have gone badly like Kate earning a lot and me earning much less, then nothing. \u00a0I said, &#8220;I think the thing we&#8217;ve done, all along, is nurture the best in each other. I don&#8217;t see how you can ask for more in a relationship.&#8221; \u00a0Kate agreed.\u00a0Somehow we have seen the highest and best in each other, staying out of each other&#8217;s way in some instances, stepping in with a helping hand at others.<\/p>\n<p>(in Pizarro&#8217;s dining room, Lima, Peru)<\/p>\n<p>Kate ordered the scallops; I went for the tenderloin. \u00a0We both ate less than half, saving some for tomorrow. \u00a0I set aside my low carb focus to have a chocolate tart for dessert. We finished smiling. \u00a0Kate slid over and put her arm through mine.<\/p>\n<p>Added to the bill were two Nicollet Island Inn mugs, memories of the evening of our 24th.<\/p>\n<p>Next year in Hawai&#8217;i!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/mamasHeader2.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-25146\" alt=\"mamasHeader2\" src=\"http:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/mamasHeader2.jpg\" width=\"900\" height=\"309\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/mamasHeader2.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/mamasHeader2-300x103.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Imbolc \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0Hare Moon Sometimes, not often, but sometimes an event matches its purpose. \u00a0Tonight&#8217;s anniversary dinner was such an event. \u00a0We arrived at the Nicollet Island Inn at 6 &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/?p=25139\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">24 Years and Still in Love<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[65,3967,243],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25139","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family","category-feelings-2","category-memories"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25139","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=25139"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25139\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":25148,"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25139\/revisions\/25148"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=25139"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=25139"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=25139"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}