{"id":4008,"date":"2009-10-05T16:35:30","date_gmt":"2009-10-05T22:35:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/?p=4008"},"modified":"2009-10-05T16:35:46","modified_gmt":"2009-10-05T22:35:46","slug":"4008","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/?p=4008","title":{"rendered":"Friends"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Fall\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Full Blood Moon<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There is no need like the lack of a friend.&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0 Irish saying<\/p>\n<p>How many sets of friends do you have?\u00a0 Not an idle question since study after study shows friendship a vital element of health.\u00a0 Friends become even more important as we age.\u00a0 Here&#8217;s a couple of examples:\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/news.bbc.co.uk\/2\/hi\/health\/4094632.stm\">BBC<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sciencemag.org\/cgi\/content\/abstract\/241\/4865\/540\">Science.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Today at noon a group of friends I still consider new, but whom I&#8217;ve actually known for almost 5 years, met for lunch at the Black Forest.\u00a0 It was those from the Docent class of 2005.\u00a0 We trained together for 2 years, meeting every Wednesday during the academic year for lectures and tour practice.\u00a0 The education was fun, since I love learning new things, but over time I&#8217;ve found the relationships formed then the most important gift.<\/p>\n<p>An introverted guy, I need these kind of stable groups.\u00a0 I&#8217;m fortunate right now to have three groups in which I&#8217;ve made networks.\u00a0 The Docent class of 2005 has, by now, blended into the docents of all classes, in particular for me, those who tour on Fridays, my tour day.\u00a0 I see these folks at continuing education, on tours, in the docent discussion group and in these more casual events that happen from time to time.<\/p>\n<p>The Sierra Club, the most recent of the three, taps into older networks for me, the DFL political world and the world of community activists, but has opened up a new one in those people whose primary activist commitment is the environment.\u00a0 I enjoy being around the new generation of political activists, people in their 20&#8217;s and early 30&#8217;s.\u00a0 They&#8217;re bright, practical, and seem to have a better balance in their lives than I did when I was engaged as intensively as they are.<\/p>\n<p>The oldest network for me is the Woolly Mammoths.\u00a0 With the Woolly&#8217;s I have 20+ years of twice monthly meetings, annual retreats and social occasions outside those events.\u00a0 We know each other, each other&#8217;s story, our families.\u00a0 We&#8217;ve had fights and reconciled, gone through life and death struggles and will go through more.\u00a0 As a man, I feel so lucky to have this long term set of relationships in my life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fall\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Full Blood Moon &#8220;There is no need like the lack of a friend.&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0 Irish saying How many sets of friends do you have?\u00a0 Not an idle question since study after study shows friendship a vital element of health.\u00a0 Friends become even more important as we age.\u00a0 Here&#8217;s a couple of examples:\u00a0 BBC, Science. 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