{"id":45931,"date":"2017-11-20T16:36:29","date_gmt":"2017-11-20T22:36:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/?p=45931"},"modified":"2017-11-20T16:36:29","modified_gmt":"2017-11-20T22:36:29","slug":"fraternity-man-against-fraternities","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/?p=45931","title":{"rendered":"Fraternity Man Against Fraternities"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Samain\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Bare Aspen Moon<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_45932\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-45932\" style=\"width: 420px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-thumbnail wp-image-45932\" src=\"http:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/wabash-420x252.jpg\" alt=\"Phi Psi House, Wabash\" width=\"420\" height=\"252\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/wabash-420x252.jpg 420w, https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/wabash.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 420px) 100vw, 420px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-45932\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Phi Psi House, Wabash<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>A word about fraternities. I was in one. Not of my choosing. Wabash College, where I spent my freshman year, required all freshmen to live on campus. There were dorms, but preference for dorm rooms went to upper classmen. (Wabash is all male.) The result: you had to pledge a fraternity. For reasons I neither recall nor care about, I ended up in Phi Kappa Psi. I mention this in particular because of an odd coincidence. A Phi Psi chapter in Texas just <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2017\/11\/14\/us\/texas-state-greek-life.html\">killed a pledge<\/a> named Ellis.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s unclear right now whether alcohol was the culprit, but if it wasn&#8217;t, I&#8217;m sure it was a contributor. Binge drinking not only occurs in fraternities, it&#8217;s actively encouraged. While I don&#8217;t blame the Indiana gamma chapter for my subsequent alcoholism and 10 years of cigarette smoking, I certainly got my start in the chapter house in Crawfordsville, Indiana.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-45933\" src=\"http:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/wabash2.jpg\" alt=\"wabash2\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/wabash2.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/wabash2-50x50.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/>Being a pledge gives pledge masters an outsized influence over young men and women in their first year away from home. I suppose this could be good, helping initiate a student into campus life, gaining a new collection of brothers and sisters who understand college, it&#8217;s relentless complexity. It wasn&#8217;t good for me. My situation is a little unusual in that I had no desire to be a fraternity man, but ended being one anyhow. I was not enamored of nor looking for a fraternity. So I began jaundiced. And left the same way.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not sure how college in the 1960&#8217;s compares to college now. It was a lot, lot different, I think, but Wabash, a more traditional place, was sort of a time capsule of old school ways. It sounds like fraternities have not changed much even now, over 50 years later.<\/p>\n<p>Count me as a fraternity man against fraternities. Reinforced by the Texas incident.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Samain\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Bare Aspen Moon A word about fraternities. I was in one. Not of my choosing. Wabash College, where I spent &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/?p=45931\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Fraternity Man Against Fraternities<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[243],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45931","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-memories"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45931","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=45931"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45931\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":45934,"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45931\/revisions\/45934"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=45931"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=45931"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=45931"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}