{"id":5307,"date":"2010-01-31T23:18:39","date_gmt":"2010-02-01T05:18:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/?p=5307"},"modified":"2016-05-16T10:15:25","modified_gmt":"2016-05-16T16:15:25","slug":"a-convention-of-former-therapists-and-ex-wives","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/?p=5307","title":{"rendered":"A Convention of Former Therapists and Ex-Wives"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Winter\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Waning Cold Moon<\/p>\n<p>Strange event today at Groveland.\u00a0 An old therapist of mine showed up to hear me preach.\u00a0 An ex-Roman Catholic priest, he came into my life while I was still reeling from a barrage of self-inflicted wounds.\u00a0 His therapeutic approach was problem-focused, that is, we always discussed what was the matter with me.\u00a0 In therapy with him I learned that this approach didn&#8217;t function well overall for me.\u00a0 He was a good listener and empathetic, too.\u00a0 It was, though, over against that school of psychological thought that I sought out a Jungian and found John Desteian.<\/p>\n<p>On thinking about it further I wondered what it would be like to have an event where all my old therapists showed up.\u00a0 If I added in ex-wives, I could fill a small lecture hall.\u00a0 What might we discuss? The points I refused to acknowledge.\u00a0 The ground I could have covered more quickly if I&#8217;d only listened.\u00a0 Or, might we discuss the essential fragility of the human condition, its inevitable pressures on our small selves.\u00a0 We might have a laugh at the man I was and perhaps, I hope, drink a cup of tea to the man I have become.<\/p>\n<p>Still doubting.\u00a0 Still vulnerable.\u00a0 Still fragile.\u00a0 Yes, but still here, too.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Winter\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Waning Cold Moon Strange event today at Groveland.\u00a0 An old therapist of mine showed up to hear me preach.\u00a0 An ex-Roman Catholic priest, he came into my life while I was still reeling from a barrage of self-inflicted wounds.\u00a0 His therapeutic approach was problem-focused, that is, we always discussed what was the matter with &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/?p=5307\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">A Convention of Former Therapists and Ex-Wives<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[2192,2191],"class_list":["post-5307","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-faith-and-spirituality","tag-jungian","tag-therapy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5307","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5307"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5307\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":41634,"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5307\/revisions\/41634"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5307"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5307"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5307"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}