{"id":62171,"date":"2025-08-05T07:21:38","date_gmt":"2025-08-05T13:21:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/?p=62171"},"modified":"2025-08-05T07:21:38","modified_gmt":"2025-08-05T13:21:38","slug":"the-second-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ancientrails.com\/?p=62171","title":{"rendered":"The Second Day"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Lughnasa and the Korea Moon<\/p>\n<p>Tuesday gratefuls: Shadow, looking at me across the pillow. At 4:30 am. My son, working. Seoah and her sister. Shopping. A warm morning. The Tomato fruits setting. Kale, Spinach, Beets growing. Having my son and Seoah under my own roof. Family. A strong, dispersed family. The view from Shadow Mountain.<\/p>\n<p>Sparks of Joy and Awe: Sharing pizza with my son<\/p>\n<p>Year Kavannah: Wu wei<\/p>\n<p>Week Kavannah:\u00a0 Ahavah. Love.<\/p>\n<p>Tarot: Knight of Vessels, The Eel<\/p>\n<p>One brief shining: A quiet, gentle feeling with my son and Seoah sleeping above me as I type; a joy that comes from deep within, neither from a happy place, or even a place of satisfaction, rather a connected and comfortable spot, one where no expectations other than love lies.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The Jangs: Jet lag saw yesterday a quiet day with my son staying here, drafting personnel reviews while Seoah went to be with her family at the Air BnB.<\/p>\n<p>Apparently it was an emotional Sunday evening with tears and alcohol at the BnB. Not sure what\u00a0 triggered all that except Appa&#8217;s jet lagged yearning for a life in the U.S. he was not able to live. He fought for and with U.S. soldiers in the Vietnam War so I imagine this is a long nurtured dream.<\/p>\n<p>He never went past elementary school, yet learned and successfully applied the principles of organic farming as a grower of vegetables and rice. He&#8217;s also been village headman for Seoah&#8217;s home village, Okgwa, for many years. Education does not equal intelligence or reveal skills.<\/p>\n<p>Appa&#8217;s long sober so it was not him drinking but Seoah&#8217;s brother-in-law, the six foot green grocer, and her sister, Min Yun. I imagine the unexpected confluence of jet lag, altitude, and American beer led to stronger effects than anticipated. Travel, eh?<\/p>\n<p>Seoah&#8217;s sister recovered well enough to convince her husband to drive her, Seoah, and their kids into Cherry Creek for some fancy, label focused shopping. My son was happy he didn&#8217;t have to go. Me, too.<\/p>\n<p>I spent a quiet Monday here with Shadow as my son worked. In the evening I went out to Ripple, a new pizza and soft ice cream joint, picked up a large pepperoni and green olives which we ate together.<\/p>\n<p>Sharing a meal, just him and me, called up the Irvine Park years when we lived in my condo.\u00a0Irvine Park had a lovely square with a Victorian fountain, a bandshell, and great oaks, one of which played backstop for many evenings of catch.<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday, talking about Hawai&#8217;i, Seoah said, quite casually, &#8220;Yes, we&#8217;ll all live there.&#8221; Indicating my son and me. If my son does decide to retire at the end of his twenty years, one year after he finishes in Korea in 2027, that&#8217;s been the plan.<\/p>\n<p>A good goal for me. A Hawai&#8217;ian sunset.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Just a moment: I knew this was coming.\u00a0T<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2025\/08\/04\/us\/politics\/pike-confederate-statue-trump-dc.html\">rump Administration Will Reinstall Confederate Statue in Washington<\/a>. NYT, 8\/5\/2025. Gotta pander to that base with the Epstein files nipping at your MAGAmatic heels.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lughnasa and the Korea Moon Tuesday gratefuls: Shadow, looking at me across the pillow. At 4:30 am. My son, working. Seoah and her sister. Shopping. A warm morning. The Tomato fruits setting. Kale, Spinach, Beets growing. Having my son and Seoah under my own roof. Family. A strong, dispersed family. 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