Lughnasa Waxing Harvest Moon
Oh. Visas. I think I shall never see a visa lovely as a tree. Or something like that. Anyhow, the Saudi visa saga took an unexpected and unpleasant turn this morning. Turns out there are two steps to the process for teachers, certification of the degree and qualifications, then, the visa process itself. This introduces more days, perhaps as much as a week more.
We’ll find out tomorrow how the school takes this news. I’m not sure why the school didn’t alert us to this fix since the Saudi visa process is the same the world over, but they provided no help at all. In fact, we’re still down one vital piece of paper, something from the Saudi Foreign Ministry inviting Mark to Saudi, a piece of paper the school was responsible to produce.
Dispiriting. Mark and I had a heated conversation about the appropriateness of my way of addressing the school’s administrator in an e-mail. Mark felt my wording was rude, boorish. American. To my ear the e-mail had nothing unpleasant or confrontational in it at all. Mark says I don’t understand and he can’t explain it to me.
Well, maybe. He and Mary both have a keen sensitivity to Asian cultures and their ways are not our ways. I’ve only visited and studied Asia, not immersed myself in it as they have over the last 20+ years. Of course, their knowledge is better than mine.
Even so, I believe Saudi culture different from Southeast Asian and enough so that whatever slight Mark felt I might have delivered will not be felt there. We’ll see tomorrow.
He certainly has a broader and more direct experience of world cultures than I do. If he turns out more right, I’ll have learned yet another lesson from life. If I turn out more right, he will have learned one.