The Card Gods Have Not Died

Winter                                                                             Cold Moon

Tonight was a Sheepshead night.  The cards ran my way all evening, evidence, Bill Schmidt said, “That the card gods have not died.”  I owe them a joss stick or two.  It was a good night for me.  And fun.

(Beham, (Hans) Sebald (1500-1550)  Fortuna . Engraving, Representing Fortune)

Bill and I ate at the St. Clair Broiler before hand.  It’s a joint from the 1940’s and still has that 40’s feel.  A neighborhood place with neon flames on its sign and just plain nice people working there.  Our waitress was sweet, a gentle, caring vibration about her.

We talked about life, about his transition to life without Regina’s physical presence, and he noted that, “We’re all always in transition.”  So true.

Roy Wolf, in whose home we play, said, “I’m 78.  The median age for white men in America.  Half are younger, half are older.”  Amazing.  Heartening to this 65, soon to be 66 year old.

On that front.  I had my brush with a blood glucose level of 112, in the above normal range for the first time.  Tom Davis, my doc, said I needed to watch my intake of sweets and starches.  I have.  I took it one step further and have begun counting carbs.  Not quite as seriously as a diabetic, but pretty seriously.

Result:  blood glucose this morning of 101.  Very reinforcing.  I’ve lost a little weight, too.  Not much, but some.

Double U o m e n

Winter                                                                   Cold Moon

Women in combat.  The Israeli’s have had women in combat for a long time.  Though it’s sad, I’m glad to see this extension of the women’s rights movement.  It means that barriers from an age of chivalry are still falling, recognizing women as able in yet another formerly all male realm.

When I started college in 1965, men had to leave women at the dormitory door at 10:00 pm.  No men in the building after hours.  This was the university acting in loco parentis.  An almost invisible part of the Sixties, far overshadowed by civil rights and the anti-war movement, the student’s rights movement had as one of its first targets in loco parentis.  It fell before I graduated in 1969 and I helped it go.  This struggle had many other aspects, among them student evaluation of professors, but in loco parentis was the most visible issue.

When I entered seminary in 1970, there were three women on campus, two in my class and one a year or two ahead of us.  When I graduated in 1976, the seminary student body was half women.  There came a time at some point in the 1980’s when there were no men in the entering class.  Similar movement has come in medicine and law, the other two traditional professions and therefore the most rigid relative to gender inclusion.

The women’s movement has been a powerful engine for change in our culture, a change that is not over yet.  Many barriers remain, especially those in the upper reaches of business management and to a lesser extent in many realms of science.  Nonetheless women have made extraordinary strides since my high school days, 1961-1965.

 

Another Inauguration, Another Time

Winter                                                                              Cold Moon

 

Whitman struggled to support himself through most of his life. While in Washington, he lived on a clerk’s salary and modest royalties, and spent any excess money, including gifts from friends, to buy supplies for the wounded soldiers he nursed during the Civil War.

Specimen Days [The Inauguration]
by Walt Whitman

March 4th.–The President very quietly rode down to the Capitol in his own carriage, by himself, on a sharp trot, about noon, either because he wish’d to be on hand to sign bills, or to get rid of marching in line with the absurd procession, the muslin temple of liberty and pasteboard monitor. I saw him on his return, at three o’clock, after the performance was over. He was in his plain two-horse barouche, and look’d very much worn and tired; the lines, indeed, of vast responsibilities, intricate questions, and demands of life and death, cut deeper than ever upon his dark brown face; yet all the old goodness, tenderness, sadness, and canny shrewdness, underneath the furrows. (I never see that man without feeling that he is one to become personally attach’d to, for his combination of purest, heartiest tenderness, and native Western form of manliness.) By his side sat his little boy, of ten years. There were no soldiers, only a lot of civilians on horseback, with huge yellow scarfs over their shoulders, riding around the carriage. (At the inauguration four years ago, he rode down and back again surrounded by a dense mass of arm’d cavalrymen eight deep, with drawn sabres; and there were sharpshooters station’d at every corner on the route.) I ought to make mention of the closing levee of Saturday night last. Never before was such a compact jam in front of the White House–all the grounds fill’d, and away out to the spacious sidewalks. I was there, as I took a notion to go–was in the rush inside with the crowd–surged along the passage-ways, the blue and other rooms, and through the great east room. Crowds of country people, some very funny. Fine music from the Marine Band, off in a side place. I saw Mr. Lincoln, drest all in black, with white kid gloves and a claw-hammer coat, receiving, as in duty bound, shaking hands, looking very disconsolate, and as if he would give anything to be somewhere else.