Seeing Ourselves Through the Eyes of Others

Lugnasa                                                       Garlic Planting Moon

Just read a very interesting couple of threads on Quora about how persons from other cultures view US culture.   What’s most interesting  to me is the reveal achieved by others, showing us aspects of our common life, aspects we pay little attention to (the most likely reservoir of culture, BTW), for example:

American culture and society is a naturally high-trust society.

…religious diversity here has made me realize how many south american customs are rooted in catholicism,

and on this set of questions on another thread:  What parts of American culture are not easily understood by foreigners?  The list below is a composite from individual answers in this thread:

The view of American peculiarities depends on the cultural origin of the respondent.

What is generally found peculiar:

  • Permissive gun laws
  • Lawsuits
  • Euphemisms
  • Individualism
  • Resistance to the metric system
  • Fashion: chiefly ugly footwear

What Asians find more peculiar:

  • Less filial piety – disrespect for the elderly
  • “Cutting off” children upon adulthood
  • Manners: Small talk, sarcasm, showing off, pitching
  • Protecting individual rights to an extreme
  • Blurry social hierarchy
  • The notion that you can be happy without success
  • “Going Dutch” and tipping in restaurants
  • Drinking ice water year-round
  • Overmedication

What Europeans find more notable:

  • Manners: Exclamative language and loudness, enthusiasm, friendliness, liberal use of humour
  • Moral contradictions
  • Social injustice: healthcare, unemployment payments
  • Politics: Tolerance for lobbying, the Right Wing, the election system
  • Psychological traits: high trust, self-deprecation, diversity, openness
  • A culture of meetings
  • Sports
  • Subtitles instead of dubbing
  • Restaurants: boxing leftovers, waiting in line

Note: This list is to be treated as merely an index of motifs found in the answers below and does not attempt to construct a stereotype. Each item here should be read in context with the rationale of the individual answers where it is found

More on this later.

 

Far Flung Family

Lugnasa                                                 Garlic Planting Moon

Brother Mark has touched down in Riyadh, capitol of Saudi Arabia, for another year of bringing the joys of English to Arab nationals.  It’s a challenging working environment, but he got through last year, so I’m sure he can do this one, too.  It takes a certain kind of person to be outside their birth culture and thrive.  Mark’s done it for 20 + years and so has Mary (sister).

I spoke with both of them today via Skype, a near miracle as far as I’m concerned.  Their premium service, which I just repurchased, allows Mark, Mary, and me to be on a visual call at the same time:  Riyadh–Singapore–Minnesota.  We did it several times last year and it amazed me every time.  (BTW:  Woollies who read this.  We could use my subscription to loop in Paul and Jimmy, too)