Category Archives: Family

Room 409

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Here we are in Room 409.  Grandma. Grandpop. Ruth and Gabe. This is a ritual, the grandkids sleep over in the in the hotel room. Grandma has them trained so they don’t fuss. It’s a good experience for all of us.

We went to Ling and Louie’s for dinner. There I asked Ruth if she wanted to have an appetizer as her dinner. No, she said, you order an appetizer, then you order your meal. Oh, sure. Forgot that. 8 years old.

Gabe chose Rio 2 as the movie he wanted to see. This continues a story that, improbably enough, starts in Mooselake, Minnesota. It features Blue, a blue Macaw and his journey to Rio where he meets Jewell who becomes his significant other.  In Rio 2, which starts at the huge crucifix and features a very realistic rendition of the crucifix and its surrounding area, ends up deep in the Amazon with a struggle between birds and loggers.

There’s a lot of music, comedy and intrigue. I can recommend it, even for you grownups who might read this.

Gabe’s 6th birthday begins tomorrow at 4. Big fun in Colorado.

 

The Family

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Jon has been out here 13 years. Hard to believe. He and I drove out here with a trailer attached to the Tundra just a month before 9/11. He’s taught at the same school for all 13 of those years, art to elementary kids and he likes it. His 15th year as a teacher.

When I asked him if it was usual for the peaks to still have snow this far into April, he surprised me by saying that the peak of the snowpack is April 26th.  The snow doesn’t leave completely until June or early July. The Rockies are visible out of the room’s window, stretching north and south as far I can see. Some of the peaks look like shots of the Himalaya’s, high and white.

Granddaughter Ruth couldn’t come for dinner last night because she’s participating on Tuesdays and Thursdays in an after school program called science for girls. She’s very good at math, has superior spatial skills and is a quick learner. Her grandma’s a science and math whiz, so she has the genes to develop as far as she might like to go.  Of course, there is the fact that she’s in the second grade. A lot of territory between  a white coat and a lab somewhere.

Gabe, the birthday boy, is a sweet kid. He ran to grandma, “Grandma!” A big hug. Later on he came over and leaned his head into my shoulder. 6 years old. He and his sister’s birthdays are two weeks apart.

Today we may go look at staghounds, a breed I think I mentioned here, a cross between a Scottish deerhound and a greyhound, only so long ago that the genetics are no longer separable. Not an AKC breed, they’ve been bred since the early 18th century, but not many of them are in the U.S. Mostly in Great Britain and Australia.

We passed several places with Retail Marijuana signs. Still a bit of a shock to this 60’s kid.

The Ancientrail of the Grandparent

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Ancientrails hits the road again today, heading back to Denver for Gabe’s birthday party on Saturday.  Kate and I are driving out.

Forgot to mention in the post below Charlie Haislet’s wonderful “32 Ways to See A Mammoth,” an homage to Wallace Stevens’ “13 ways to see a blackbird.” It was funny, quirky, profound, moving. A memorable work.

 

Significant People Update

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Update on the unusual spate of hospitalizations I noted a couple of weeks ago.Gabe at 6

Woollies recovering:  Tom, thumb.  Frank, back. Bill’s good after his day of needles and scans. Granddaughter Ruth who smashed her foot under a teeter-totter, mending.

Today is Grandson Gabe’s 6th birthday.  He’s an earthday kid. We’re going to see him for his birthday party which is this Saturday. I’m looking forward to traveling with Kate.

 

Carlsbad, Saguaro and Chaco Canyon Belated Photo Gallery (&Ruth)

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Due to technical difficulties (I lost the dongle that connected my camera to the computer.) I’ve only this week gotten pictures from the Tucson trip loaded.  Here a few just to give you a flavor of the journey.  Click on the photograph to see the whole, this presentation crops them a bit.

 

Saturday

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Business meeting.  Money continues to come in and go out.  Life in advanced stage capitalism.  Third life, that is.

The rain today waters in the nitrogen I put down yesterday and soaks the seeds, giving them that first shot of liquid and snugging them in their rows.  The chill, raw temps are why I did that yesterday afternoon.  This is the next week’s weather, roughly, according to the weather forecasts.

Kate and I see Mountaintop at 1 pm today at the Guthrie.  Bill Schmidt’s description of it made it interesting to me.  Also, in all these years of theater going, I’ve never seen a Penumbra presentation.  Looking forward to this one.

A kind thought to all those recovering or about to begin recovering from one medical intervention or another.  Especially Tom’s thumb and Frank’s back.

The Organ Recital

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News from folks I know.  Tom’s thumb is now hidden beneath protective layers and will remain so for a while.  He reports things went well, but he’s wondering where his right forearm went.  He used to have one.

Ruth is 8 and has ridden in a car with no car seat.  This is a milestone birthday for her. She Ruth's 8thhas a boot for her foot hurt in a teeter-totter accident. Too, she gets her own bicycle which she told me she could ride over to Grandma’s.  Jen’s mother is moving to Denver in July.

Bill and I play sheepshead once a month and the hospital trend continued when Roy called up to say we couldn’t play because Judy, his wife, had to be under observation after a procedure earlier in the day.  She’s doing better now.

Kate’s battery and can (pulse generator) replacement incision has healed nicely and the bandage, an itchy thing, has come off.

Frank’s up next on Monday.  Back surgery.  Here’s to him continuing the streak of positive medical news.

A Secular Sabbath

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Sundays have a certain slowness to them, as if time itself moves languidly, the urgency of the workweek drained out.  Of course, that’s an inversion of the real phenomena which happens not on Sunday but in the mind when it finds itself in a Sunday way.

Back when I was a small town boy, Sunday meant shining my father’s shoes in the morning before church.  While complaining about it.  I mean, thirty-five cents for dipping my hands in black shoe polish?  Then, off to Sunday School with one teacher or another followed by the Sunday service sitting in the family pew (not reserved, but held for us anyhow by long tradition) under the watchful eye of Jesus praying, his hands on a large boulder, in the Garden of Gethsemane.  This was stage right from the pulpit on the west side of the sanctuary.

Afterward, at least for a long time, we would often get in the family sedan, Mary and I in the back, mom and dad up front, and drive over to Elwood (our most bitter athletic rivals, but that didn’t matter to mom and dad) and go to Mangas’ cafeteria.  It had those tubular rails with an upraised one at the back to hold your formica tray as you passed by the offerings in small dishes.  I remember most the swiss steak, which I loved, and mashed potatoes with butter pooling yellow in the middle.

We would eat, then go home where the rest of the day disappears from memory.

Later, as a city rat, church was a work related experience since my city time is almost exactly coterminous with seminary and my career as a minister.  So, I would head off to work on Sunday morning, usually in this church or that since I worked for the Presbytery (a geographical jurisdiction) and when I finished, again Sunday afternoon sort of disappears from memory.

As an exurbanite, I fell into the Sunday afternoon NFL maw for several years, but as of late the Viking’s have cured me of that experience.  That means now Sundays have neither church nor the cafeteria nor football and what is left is the residue of passivity Sunday represented in its small town and football eras.  No wonder my inner world moves more slowly on Sundays.

It’s my secular sabbath.  And I think that’s a good thing.

Battery Check

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Up early and in to Abbott-Northwestern.  Kate had a battery replacement in her pacemaker.  Her doctor, the yoda-like Dr. Tang, was efficient and clear in his explanations.  No complications and now plenty of percocet. (update:  Kate wanted me to say that the battery replacement includes the pulse generator, too.  This is standard when replacing the battery.)

Driving in at 6:30 was easy, the traffic not too heavy and the closer we got to the city the lighter it got.

Everyone’s talking about the snow storm on its way.  We’ll see if it interferes with sheepshead tonight.  Hard to tell from the forecasts.

What Is My Life Reaching For?

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On the last afternoon of the Intensive Journal Workshop we had an exercise focused on what our life is reaching for.  In the first morning we had defined the current period of our life: in my case the time after Kate’s retirement.  By the last afternoon we had worked ourselves into the next period of our lives.  Since we were newly in this next period, this exercise asked us to feel, below the conscious level, where our lives wanted to go.

Here is my sense of what my life is reaching for in this next period:

1. a bountiful, sustainable nutrient dense harvest of fruit and vegetables.

2. a way to use the Great Wheel website to advance the Great Work through literature, science and political activism.

3. a third phase (third lifetime) writing portfolio with short story writing credits as a floor for selling novels.

4. a schedule for translating and commenting on at least several books of the Metamorphoses

5. still more of a stable, wonderful marriage, regular visits and communication with kids and grandkids and friends.

6. more mutual travel opportunities with Kate.

As I work in the inner movement of my life, I can feel a quieting, a confidence that who I am and what I do is enough-no matter the outcomes.  This feeling has grown stronger since Kate retired and continues to strengthen with time.

In my third lifetime I will be calm, steady, productive.