Category Archives: Travel

Falling in Love

Imbolc                                                                 Valentine Moon

“I really fell in love with that part of the world,” says Cynthia Hopkins of the Arctic, where she journeyed with other artists in 2010. “I also fell in love with the boat we were on.”  author of This Clement World opening at the Guthrie

My promiscuity.  I shamelessly fall in love over and over again when I travel.  Bangkok’s quirky Chinatown, especially on the weekend with all those restaurants set up on the sidewalks and folks walking in the densely trafficked street.  Angkor in all its viney, scorpion infested, land-mined Hindu strangeness.  Inverness and its smoky river, walking there with Kate.  Why do we ever have to leave?  That little restaurant, Crispie’s was it, just down from the Internazionale in Rome.  The Ringstrasse in Vienna.  The left bank in Paris.

(oh, yeah, Romania.  A more recent love.)

Then there was Ushuaia, that frowsy scamp of a town as far south as you can get in the Americas.  And, god, just before her, those Chilean fjords.  Let me off the boat.  Give me a small house, an internet connection and forget about me until, well, forever.  Montevideo, too.  Friendly, beefy, colorful.  Old world European with a Latin twist.

I suppose I’d have to mention those old, first loves, too.  Chicago, city of roast beef sandwiches, the Field Museum, the Shedd Aquarium, Hyde Park.  D.C. and all its power, its monuments and museums.  And yes, like so many before me, I had a brief fling with San Francisco, but she’s so expensive, a real high-maintenance gal.

Of course, there are a few I keep, stable-like, harems of places that I visit like a ghost Sultan, flitting in and out, but always returning for one more time.  Lake Superior, especially the true north shore, the part in Ontario.  The Georgian bay of Lake Huron.  Those rocky mountains lying just at the limits of my home turf here in the U.S.  All majesty and purple.

Savannah and Charleston, yes.  The south is a guilty pleasure, that one with the dark desires, visited always with an eye to the road back north.  New Orleans, oh yes.  Dark queen of the south.  I’m sure I could return to the Okefenokee swamp.  And I confess to two trips to Red Cloud, Nebraska.  Those Grand Tetons.  Yes.  Cody, Wyoming. Yes.  Ely and the north woods.  Yes.

You see, I’m the tramp really.  Letting my heart go, letting it all go.  Loving this place and that.  I’m easy, I guess.

the quiet american

Imbolc                                                                  Valentine Moon

In the spirit of catching up on the films of the last few decades Kate and I watched the Quiet American, a 2002 adaptation of Graham Green’s 1955(!) novel.  It depicts, through the eyes of a British journalist, the early activity of the CIA in creating the South Vietnamese army and government.  Astoundingly prescient.

Raised many different feelings.  Yearning for Southeast Asia, a wonderful, yet strangely far away part of the world.  A place I feel intimately tied to through my sister and brother’s long tenancy there and my 2004 visit.  Disgust at the role of the American government in its most banal anti-communist clothing.  Memories of the 60’s as the dark fruit of the 1950’s seeds began to ripen, then rot.  Kate’s distaste for war.  “Killing doesn’t solve anything.”

A period for my generation that defined us as young adults.  Either for or against, little middle ground.  Those division persist among us.  Even in my high school class there are only a few of us who were anti-war.  The rest, the blue collar middle-class of those days, patriotic in a militaristic, flag-waving way.  Long ago but not far away.

Out of the Salt Mines and On to the Treadmill

Imbolc                                                                 Valentine Moon

Well, I’m close, but not finished.  As the books got shelved, the remaining space seems to be inadequate for what I have left.  Probably a way around it, I’ll find it tomorrow.  Right now.  Tired again.

(a salt mine cathedral in Colombia outside Bogota.  I visited in 1987.)

Just brought in more bags of feed for the animals.  40 pounds at a time.  Then salt for the water softener, 50 pounds a bag.  But.  They have nice plastic handles.  Working in the salt mines doesn’t mean what it used to.

Discovered that my glucometer needed calibration.  Once calibrated it told me a story I was glad to hear.  At least by today’s reading my low carb diet has lowered my blood glucose level.  And, I’ve lost a bit of weight, too.  All in all a good thing.  Though Kate, a carb lover of some note, has expressed some dissatisfaction.  No pasta, no breads, no cakes or pies.  We’re figuring out now how to add carbs back into her diet without creating a cook two meals at a time situation.  We’ll figure it out.

Right now I’m getting on the treadmill.  Which, for that matter, doesn’t mean what it used to either.

This is a Landice treadmill, the brand and model I’m about get on.

 

Ghosts

Imbolc                                                                          Valentine Moon

Today, a bit tired due to early rising, moving books put a weight on my shoulders.  It was the past and its tangled feelings.  Found my first passport and saw a young man with a full head of dark brown hair and a beard that matched.  Surprised me, so long have I seen his gray descendant in the mirror.

(arrestedmotion.com 2012 10 upcoming aron wiesenfeld new paintings arcadia-gallery)

That was my passport for Colombia, the trip to check out a bank for the poorest of the poor.  Carolyn Levy was in my life at that point, between my divorce from Raeone and meeting Kate a year plus later.  A hard time, raising a 6 year old boy, working night and day between church meetings and organizing.  A hard time, too, since the future had grown unclear.  Something big had happened or was about to happen, but its outlines in my life were not yet clear.

Then I moved out the books related to shifting my ordination to the Unitarian-Universalist movement.   Again, a time when the future had become unclear.  Writing had not shown the promise it offered when Kate and I agreed I should leave the Presbytery.  Frustrated there, I regressed, headed back to the trade that I knew.  More lack of clarity.

Poor decisions.  I chose Unity UU over First Unitarian for my internship.  An error.   The humanist congregation would have fit me much better.  Then, at the end of an interesting year, I accepted a job as minister of development.  Chief fund raiser.   OMG.  One of the really boneheaded decisions in my life.  Not the only one, for sure, and not the worst one, but dumbest?  Probably.  Kate saw it coming. I ignored her.  Sigh.

(Vincenzo Foppa The Young Cicero Reading 1464)

Those books were the heaviest to move because I’ve traveled out of the UU circle, too.  A solo practitioner am I, as the Wiccans say.  In that vein though I retained many of my books on spirituality, works on natural theology and those commentaries I mentioned on the Torah and the book of Revelation.

Heavy, especially with lack of sleep thrown in.  Ghosts.  They’re real and they live in the closets, basements and attics of our mind.

Take A Hike

Imbolc                                                                     New (Valentine) Moon

Business meeting.  Money matters go well.  Calendar looks good.  I’ve had to pull back my Isle of Skye trip to the US, too much money going out unexpectedly:  furnace, Gertie.  I did find a great alternative though, lodge to lodge hiking on the Superior Trail.  I can do the same length of trip, beautiful hikes with views of Lake Superior, and spend about half the money.

Kate and I have been fixing the front door on the plate today.  I took the pins out of the hinges, levered the door off and we could finally remove the lock from the door.  Kate’s putting a new door knob and lock into the door right now, then I’ll go back up and rehang the door.  He said confidently.  This door’s solid core with a metal front.  Translation:  heavy.  It ain’t heavy, it’s my front door.  Yeah, right.

More Eddas and Latin today as the snow falls.

(winter storm northeast 2013)

A wet snow began to fall this morning and forecasts have it continuing into Monday.  Maybe 4-6 inches.  Not near as much as the poor Northeast.  Getting this monster snow storm after Hurricane Sandy.  Not a good thing.

Global Siblings

Winter                                                                                    Cold Moon

Brother Mark went on a tour of Saudi Arabia over break.  He saw a bit of Medina from a bus, haram to  kafirs, and much of a part of Saudi Arabia where the Nabataeans lived.  The Nabataeans built Petra, the great rock city, now in Jordan.

(a view in Jordanian Petra)

It widens the personal when siblings live such far ranged lives as Mark’s in Riyadh and Mary’s in Singapore.  It means events in certain corners of the world, say Syria or Lebanon, have immediate interest for me aside from their geopolitical consequences.  Singapore shows up in the news a lot, too, most recently as an unhappy place.

Skype means we can see each other regularly and speak to each other at the same moment, if not the same time.  Video phones!  The future!  Their lives have differences from mine that I cannot imagine, most prominently work environments where the expectations of other cultures are not only evident, but in charge.

Personal life, too, is much different, of course.  Take Mary’s story on the flowering palm at the Singapore Botanical Garden.  Or her dancing in street festivals with colleagues.  Or our visiting the fire-walking at a Hindu temple when I visited her.  Mark works as a Caucasian minority in a nation virtually closed to tourists, but thronging with foreign workers, among them his fellow teachers at Riyadh University.

He told a story in a recent e-mail:   “I got let out at these nice ruins by this older guy who let me in. He had driven me out to the ruins, they were a ways out from the gate. I was dumped out by him. I had a fairly good time inspecting these really cool ruins. Then, the same guy comes up with two cops in a jeep. One Arab interprets, I am free to go. I walked to another site, then walked out, as I agreed.  I was walking out when the same old guy who let me in appears with some other dude, probably a cop. He was in plain clothes. I have tea and coffee with the cops. Then, the plain-clothes cop gives me a lift to a hotel. Closely following were the same two cops from the ruins in a police jeep.”

Not to mention of course that we have snow and zero temps.  Mark’s in the desert and Mary’s in the tropics.

Bees and Hikes

Winter                                                                               Cold Moon

Checked the bees this am.  A midwinter are you still alive check.  Colony 2.  No.  As I’d expected.  It was weak going in to the winter and even though I fed them a lot at the end of fall I doubted their supply.  Colony 1, though, the ornery one is still vital.  I needed to know now because this is the time to order package bees.  I have to decide whether to order one  package or two.  Leaning toward one since the parent colony, colony 1, will be a divide in May, leaving me with three anyway.

Outside for the first time in a while.  I’m going to get my winter hiking legs back over the coming weeks since I’m planning an inn to inn hiking vacation, a belated 65th birthday trip.  Got to be sure I can go the distance.  I know my aerobic conditioning is in good shape, but it’s all short term work, no longer than an hour.  Got to work up to day long hikes.

Not sure yet whether I’m going to England, Scotland, Wales or somewhere here in the US though I’m leaning towards the Isle of Skye.

Then again, I might just go to Gettysburg, then to D.C. to see the Pre-Raphaelite show at the National Gallery and maybe hop the train up to Philly to see the Barnes.  Still thinking.

 

Denver

Samhain                                                              Thanksgiving Moon

Slightly out of breath.  The mile high city will do that to you.  Already had the grandkids running, “Grandpa!” and grabbing on, getting lifted up.  The world has little better to offer.  Perhaps the unconditional love of a dog is equivalent.

Jon and Jen have a backyard with grass, pathways of gray crushed rock, a tree house, a brand new Jon made dining room table, an impressive piece of carpentry, two new bathrooms, tiled and plumbed by Jon, a new master bedroom with big closets and a totally renovated kitchen.  And tomorrow they’ll serve Thanksgiving dinner.  16 people.

When I got up at 5:30 am, I wondered who had made the damned reservation.  (Me, back in August, when 8:22 am didn’t seem too bad.)  I was, however, pleased when I got to the airport on the busiest travel day of the year and waltzed right through security.  The plane left on time and arrived on time.

A short trip, this one, but an important one.  For family.

A Year Ago

Samhain                                                                    Thanksgiving Moon

one of my favorite days on our cruise…

Follow The Green Sidewalk

Posted on November 19, 2011 by Charles

Spring Moon of the Southern Cross

Montevideo, Uruguay On the banks of the Rio de la Plata, overlooking the Atlantic to the East

Travel brings the unexpected. A primary purpose, of course, but after tours with guides, I had become a bit dulled to the canned formula of the best this and the most that and the very special music. Not saying it was all boring, far from it, but too predictable.

Not today. In Montevideo, a city of which I had no expectations, Kate and I had a wonderful day. After being pressed sideways into the dock, we ended up within walking distance of the old part of Montevideo. At about 10:30 I suggested to Kate that we walk into town, something we could do in only a handful of ports. She agreed.

Our way took us first past two warehouses, both as I described earlier, three stories high with iron doors spaced about 50 feet apart on each story, brick with chipped and rusted concrete outlining the doors and interior bays. The iron doors, once gray now have rust blooms, some just a few, others with the gray vanishingly small.

When we got past these, a painted walkway led us through a port welcome area with guides hawking city tours and a free shuttle to a leather factory. Beyond them a memorial to the sinking of the Graf Spee shared a park-like space with painted anchors and their chains, or sheckles, as we learned from our Captain. Policia Turistica sported chartreuse fluorescent vests and stared off, wherever people stare who face an entire day of standing in roughly the same spot.

Across an intersection a sign said, “Tourists Follow Green Sidewalk.” Guess what that made me want to do? Kate said, “We’re following the green sidewalk.” Oh, ok.

A large boulevard with some cobblestone lanes opened in front of us. The buildings were somewhat dilapidated, like the warehouses, concrete and brick that had seen better days. Or, maybe not. There was a shabby chic to it that appealed to me.

A wandering fellow tourist told us about a market hidden by buildings ahead. We walked over that way. Sure enough there was a large open air market with many different things for sale, many of them tourist oriented, but just as many artisans selling their products.

Off the market area, pedestrian only somewhat like Florida Street in Buenos Aires, a large building held more shops and a number of restaurants each of which featured huge fires and metal grills filled with roasting meat: chicken, sausage, beef tenderloin, pork, lamb. Each restaurant had an awning with its name around four sides of an island that contained the fire, the roasting meat, a bar and an area for washing dishes. Tables and chairs flanked the islands in the open area created by the building, fans turning, cooling the diners.

When we firsts went through, tables were set and glasses sparkled. The smells of roasting meat had only begun to fill the room.

We looked in several shops, but continued up another, older pedestrian way with a slight incline. This had a few tourists shops, too, but began to sport a carneteria here, a fruit and vegetable market with their wares colorfully displayed in wooden crates on the sidewalk there, a bar named “Los Beatles” and a petfood store.

The buildings have a colonial look, similar to the older part of Panama City that we saw well over a month ago, balconies, molded cornices, plaster decorations. A few of the buildings had pastel colors, recently added.

Like the warehouses and the building across from the green tourist sidewalk these buildings had a shabby but not run down look to them, more like a neighborhood in which people really lived. As the mid-day heat had begun to settle on us, Kate started talking about air conditioning. About 45 minutes before that, I told her I’d give my 12:30 tour a pass to meander around Montevideo with her.

We walked back down the hill toward the large building with the restaurants.

Inside we walked past several folks hawking their restaurants, “Sir, a refreshing drink?” “Some lunch, mister?” and found a table underneath a fan at the Cafe Veronica.

The waiter welcomed us to Montevideo and to Uruguay with a genuine and warm greeting. When Kate got up to take a quick picture of the fire, another waiter came up and encourage her to go inside the kitchen to take her picture. After some insisting, she did. We had a meal that exceeded our expectations and a dessert, pancakes con leche that would bring me back to Cafe Veronica in a hurry if it weren’t so damned far away.

This was the kind of day I’d been missing, a day of just poking around, meeting some folks, sticking our heads into various places, seeing the layout for ourselves, discovering rather than being led.

We had a great day together then came back and took a nap.

Just Me and the Dogs

Samhain                                                                      Thanksgiving Moon

Kate called from Denver.  A normal flight.  She’s had her nap and will head over to Jon and Jen’s.  I’ve worked on Missing.  Making progress, now more than 2/3’s through this first revision.  When I finish, I’m going to print it out and read it, pencil in hand.

Did a fitness test and my aerobic fitness is good for a man my age.  Which is fine.  Good is good enough.

Quiet here.  No thump, thump, thump from Kate’s sewing machine, which sits just above my desk, on the main floor of our house.

The dogs and I have a rhythm for times alone and we fall into it pretty easily.